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5 years and still no marriage proposal. Do I wait or give up?


January 17, at 7: Going through all comments made by the commenters, I realized only few people were sincere about their comments. Entering the second year of any relationship, a responsible girl should throw a question to would be their future husband how readiness and how soon he is planning on settling down. From his response you should be able to determine if you are staying in that relationship or quiting. Please, for those of you who are apportioning blame on that guy, you are wrong.

Love Story: After 2 years and no proposal, she took matters into her own hands. After two years of dating and Dave not mentioning marriage, I became impatient and proposed to him.

He used to say: O Allah, if You know that this matter and name it is good for me in respect of my Deen , my livelihood and the consequences of my affairs, or he said , the sooner or the later of my affairs then ordain it for me, make it easy for me, and bless it for me. But if You know this matter and name it to be bad for my Deen, my livelihood or the consequences of my affairs, or he said the sooner or the later of my affairs then turn it away from me, and turn me away from it, and grant me power to do good whatever it may be, and cause me to be contented with it.

And let the supplicant specify the object. This is not going to help. Do not go around revealing every single detail about the person to other people. And what if the person married someone else you know? Many decent individuals will not be suitable for you, but perfect for other people. Have Taqwa and ask smart questions Some people fall into grave mistakes or indecent acts thinking: If he acts sneakily and does not, as a man, know how to act responsibly and show seriousness and commitment, then this is not someone to entrust with your life and future.

What if he decided whenever he wants that you are not good enough for him and just disappears, does this approach really preserve your heart and dignity? Now, are we saying that you should marry someone blindly without getting to know him? What we are saying is: You do not need to go out and about alone with the person and test him in all possible situations.

 

 
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